In our society, we’ve become myopic and obsessive about one
particular kind of love: dyadic love, which takes the form of romance,
sex, marriage. As a result we end up asking all the wrong
questions. Books about relationships talk about how to “get” the
love you need, how to “keep” love, and so on. But the right question
to ask is “How do I become a more loving human being?”


- Sam Keen